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Sati should get up early in the morning , change her dress and with clean dress she must do namaskaara to her husband and then Pati antaryami Parmatma should be worshiped thus ..

In one way this stotra enumerates the qualities that a husband should have or a husband should cater for and strive to achieve these qualities . A woman should look forward to having these qualities in the husband and thus pray for it to HARI .

पति स्तोत्र
नमः कांताय भर्त्रे च शिरश्चंद्रस्वरूपिणे । नमःशांताय दांताय सर्वदेवाश्राय च ॥
नमो ब्रह्मस्वरुपाय सतीप्राणापराय च । नमस्याय च पूज्याय हृदयाधाराय ते नमः ॥
पंचप्राणाधिदेवाय चक्षुसस्तारकाय च । ज्ञानाधाराय पत्नीनां परमानंदरूपिणे ॥
पतिःब्रह्मा पतिर्विष्णुः पतिरेव महेश्वरः । पतिश्चनिर्गुनाधारः ब्रह्मरूप नमोस्तुते ॥
क्षमस्वभगवन् दोषं ज्ञानाऽज्ञानकृतं च युत्। पत्नीबंधोऽ दयासिंधू दासीशेषं क्षमस्व मेऽ॥
‌इदं स्तोत्रम् महापुण्यं सृष्ट्यादौ पद्मयाकृतं । सरस्वत्या च धरया गंगया च पुरा वृज ॥
सावित्र्या च कृतं पुर्वं ब्रह्मणे चापि नित्यशः । पार्वत्या च कृतं भक्त्या कैलासे शंकराय च ॥
मुनीनां च सुराणाम् च पत्नीभिश्चकृतं पुरा । पतिव्रतानाम् सर्वासाम् स्तोत्रमेतच्छुभावहम् ॥
इदं स्तोत्रम् महापुण्यं या श्रुणोति पतिव्रता । नरोऽन्यो वाऽपि नारी वा लभते सर्ववांछितम् ॥
अपुत्रो लभते पुत्रं निर्धनो लभते धनं । रोगी च मुच्यते रोगाद्बद्धो मुच्येत बंधनात ॥
पतिव्रता च स्तुत्वा च तीर्थस्नानफलं लभेत । फलं च सर्वतपसां व्रतानाम च व्रजेश्वराः ॥

इदं स्तुत्वा नमस्कृत्य भुंक्ते सा तदनुज्ञया ॥ ब्र. वै .

shloka 1. namaha kantaya bhratre ch shirashchandrasvarupine | namshshantay daantaya sarvadevashrayay ch ||

Oh husband you are my beloved very dear to me . In all circumstances you look after me ,you feed me and protect me , You are my husband , namaskar to you as  blessings of the one having moon on his head are there on you . My husband is always cool shanta towards me . Always engrossed in the mind about HARI , Keeping all his senses under control and he being the abode of all the devatas in his body . I bow before you .

shloka 2.

Oh my husband , ever engaged in the pooja of gunapurna LORD . Pleased Lord has blessed him with the exceptional qualities . He never steps back and is ready to forego everything for me and my happiness . Thus he is eligible for my worship and is respectable to me My mind is steadfast in him and my heart is dependent on him it beats for him .Thus i bow with my head down to my husband my support system .

shloka 3.

my adhidevta of my panchaprana , as if Seeing you[ husband ] with fondness and love is the only duty of my eyes [ my eyes continuously is focussed on you and as such its a festival for my eyes ] . You are the adhaara /foundation for the my knowledge leading to MOksha . Oh Lord as present in my husband you are the real happiness[paramananda] for all satis .

shloka 4.

oh my husband , you have complete blessings of srishtikarta bramha , you are totally subservient to Vishnu , You are blessed by sadashiva the destroyer .You are the refuge that i seek for my qualities .Though I have not strived hard to gain bhakti gyana vairagya but with steadfast knowledge and devotion in HARI you also bestow the same to me out of love and affection making me thus eligible for Bramhanugraha . Thus I bow before you wholeheartedly .

shloka 5.

Whatever mistakes I have done knowingly or unknowingly YOU forgive them all out karunya bhava .This qulaity of yours I always cherish and have faith in you .Husband is the only relative for a wife , You are a ocean of patience and karuna . Thus taking me for your dasi kindly always pardon me in my moments of aparadha .

This stotra was done in the begining of creation  by LAXMIDEVI to HARI . Then SARASAVTI and GANGADEVI others everyday worship their respective husband with this stotra .

This way even savitri has worshipped BRAMHA , PArvati has done stuti of SHANKARA with devotion .

Indra and devata and their wives have worshiped through this stotra . Even wives of munis have benefited with this stotra . Early in the morning reciting this shloka increases pativratya .

If any woman human or otherwise ,even if she listens to this stotra with devotion [this stotra is param punyaprada ] it gives all the desired . This is also good for unmarried girls to listen to get the desired .

Those who are aspiring for children beget children by daily reciting this shloka . Those desirous of wealth become wealthy through this stotra . Diseased gets relief from diseases , imprisoned gets released by reciting this stotra .

This stotra enables a pativrata stree to get all the punya of teerthayatra , it will bring all the benefits of tapasya and it is akin to all the vratas done at a time in giving results . One should always eat only after reciting this stotra .

One must always aspire for a Vishnu bhakta as husband . One who sees a agnihotra bramhin , a pativrata stree , a cow or a deep or yagnyakunda early in the morning never gets misfortunes .

Those who illtreat wife or leave a religiously wedded wife become a woman in the next seven lives and are left by their husbands and also suffer widowhood for next seven births .One must never leave a yogya stree but if one has to leave a dushta stree then one must give her 1/3rd of his property if one does not have any property then one must earn the same upto 1/3rd and then leave . so says yagyavalkya smruti .

The wife who is sahdharmini and satvik should never be left in the young age [ this hsows that in old age she can be left ] yes in the old age if sanyasa has to be taken then she has to be entrusted in the safe hands of her brother or able children and then  take sanyasa . For a vanaprasthi if patni wishes to accompany him to forest then he must  take her to forest too .

One who has left his wife if he wants to atone for his sins then prayashchitta ordained is covering oneself with donkey skin with hairs /pores outside and taking bhiksha from seven houses and eat for next six months ,thus he gets relieved of the sins .

A woman should never ever get married to a qualityless man [ gunaheena ] Vishnu bhakti is the prime guna . EVEN if she has to sit at home as kanya for a long period or till death but avaishnav husband should not be resorted to . One must resist if one of the family memebers , father mother etc force for such marriages and resort to strike till they accept the wish . Shastra accords such a right to kanya .

Thus ends the extract from bramhavaivarta purana

Krishnarpanamastu .

Comments on: "PATI STOTRA !" (24)

  1. Chiraanji- Sometimes it’s possible that the wife is better than husband. E.g. more intelligent, talented, better looking, popular etc..
    Should she downplay herself so that her husband doesn’t feel bad or should the husband encourage her to achieve her best and not feel insecure about wife’s success ?


    • In the final births of women during her sadhana , she normally gets a seemingly lesser husband [ husband owing to prarabdha gets a sheath of ignorance on his true worth ] and thus gets opportunity to display the qualities which gets highlighted in her birth .
      A woman according to shastras should see HARI in her husband and serve even if he is
      1.Struck by misfortunes
      2. impotent
      3. incapacitated or crippled
      4. mentally retarded
      5.has multiple wives
      6. irreligious
      7.attrocious and evil.
      8. lazy
      9. irresponsible
      10. given to vices .
      so during last phases of sadhna all these conditions manifest one by one and testing times do arise .


      • Namaskar GURUDEV,


        ‘so during last phases of sadhna all these conditions manifest one by one and testing times do arise’

        That means in last phases…woman donot go/should not go for remedies..or Rayaru prayers..?

        Or Shadhika does not feel any bad in such conditions…they donot think for better conditions……because of gyana ? LIke in PurandaraDasa case…he was not feeling any pain because of all punisments given to him for his theft from temple and visiting to a prostitute…instead he was singing…

        Sir, Please kindly make this clear to me..

        SriHariVayuGurubhyo Namah,
        Sincere Pranam.



  2. Dear Guruji,

    Wonderful article as usual. In one of your articles you had mentioned that women are always reborn as women. But in this article you have said that Husband will be reborn as woman and left by her husband in the next 7 births. Does that mean females whose husband leave them at young age are suffering due to this previous birth sins. Which planetary configurations indicate this sin. How to identify a person is going through misery it is a result of previous birth or the person causing the misery will pay in the next birth.


  3. Dear Chiraan:

    Can you please answer my question posted at free consultation ?


  4. Namaskara, Chiraanji,

    As usual a wonderful post! Looking forward to reading the Pati stotra in Devanagri script! Thanks for such enlightening posts.
    Does chanting this sloka confer more Vishnu bhakti in the husband as well?


    • Ms Smriti ,
      yes it will increase the vishnu bhakti .
      devanagari script posted ,
      Kindly assume some pseudo fullnames , writing as S P F etc creates confusions as there as many S P K L M N who are different but for readers they may look as though opinion of single person .


      • Sir,

        Your sincerity and promptness is much appreciated. Thanks so much for posting the Devanagiri version of the Stotra.

        I will inculcate this in my daily pooja routine from today if that is also advisable by you.
        Thanks again.


      • Thanks for posting the devanagri script.


  5. Acharya Namaskars,

    Many great saints have taken Sanyasa in young age after Grastha ashrama.How does scriptures explain.Pl guide.


    • in each case , a special dream or coaxing by acharya or instructions were noted . None took sanyasa on their own in youth . Infact everyone resisted sanyasa in youth .


  6. How to identify a VIshnu bhakta ?


    • nava vidh bhakti , and sadaachaar , are prime indications . second signs are his being afront [ as per capacity yogyata ] in defending Vishnu bhakta and Ved go bramhana .


      • karthik said:

        poojaneeyamaina gurugariki,

        how should one behave when the brahmanas are hari dweshi’s like advaitins etc… also wrt to cows .. we oftne find that foreign cows are much voilent unlike indian cows.. should we support them ?


        • Bramhin whether dvaita or advaita are equally respectable . What they reap after their life owing to hari dwesha is their prarabdha . But for having born as Bramhin , they are eligible for satkara maryada of greeting them , felicitating them namaskaara etc . Here HARI sannidhi is there . hence they are poojaniya , Not everyone is born madhva . Remember great TRIVIKRAMPANDTACHARYA , PADMANABHTEERTHARU and scores others were also ADVAITIS initially . MAny wed their daughters to MADHVAS , if the interaction becomes like INDOPAK cricket duel then world will not move [ i mean vaNgmaya prapancha ] . By the way my wife is from ADVAITA family .


  7. Could you also enlighten us about the vrats and pooja a woman can undertake to keep her husband safe and happy forever ?


  8. Chiraan Sir,

    I found this website http://is1.mum.edu/vedicreserve/puran.htm. At number 10 is Bramhavaivarta Purana. If we can know, which chapter does this Stotra belong to we can, alternatively, get it from there.

    BTW, this was a great article and time appropriate for my personal problems. I really appreciate your great effort and knowledge.



  9. Respected Chiraan Sir,

    Can we Pati-Stotra in Sanskrit (Devanagari Lipi)?
    Also, please enlighten if I can start reciting this stotra, say, tomorrow? The method is mentioned at the beginning of this post, however, can I do this with my regular Pooja routine?

    Thanks and regards,


  10. Praveen Anand Nagesham said:

    Namaskaram Shri Chiranji,

    My sincere regards to you for posting a new and virtue giving eugology for sake of women. Kindly solve a query of mine, can unmarried girls get married by chanting or reading this stotra in front of lord Hari. Till how many days or period of sadhana should be done. I sincerely support you that selecting a Vishnu bhakta is the best fortune for a woman. A person who is opposed to devotion towards lord Hari is like a dead corpse though living and wealthy.

    Thank You
    Best Regards


    • Yes unmarried can read this stotra , along with this tritiya vrat for a year will give excellent marital life for a unmarried girl besides getting a very good husband .
      Alternatively SRIRAAMA upasana which i will post will give excellent husband . ironically in my experience many woma with Rama upasana have got husband of punarvasu nakshatra . pati stotra for married woman will increase love between couples day by day .


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